The Complete Lowdown on Using BDSM Mouth Gags for Beginners

What is a ball gag and how is it used?

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A ball gag is a specific type of gag that features a spherical object, typically made of silicone or rubber, which is strapped into a person’s mouth and secured with belt-like leather straps that wrap around the back of the head. This setup renders the wearer unable to speak and increases their feeling of submission.

Using a ball gag in BDSM roleplay often results in the wearer drooling uncontrollably and being unable to speak, though they can still make indiscernible noises such as moans and grunts. The gag-wearer is traditionally considered the submissive partner, while the ungagged participant takes on the dominant role.

To successfully incorporate a ball gag into BDSM activities, it is crucial to set expectations and agree on a maximum time limit—typically around ten to fifteen minutes at first. The wearer should try the ball gag …